LTF 71: More on the Obtainer Attitudes; the Last 3 Links; Dependent Arising

Verses 109-112

We are continuing our study of this text, Letter to a Friend, by Nagarjuna, which he wrote to his friend the king, explaining the path to liberation and enlightenment. In it, after an introductory presentation of what is important in the study, Nagarjuna presents the main teachings, which according to Mipham’s outline, are on the six far-reaching attitudes. For far-reaching discriminating awareness, we have the three higher trainings, those of higher ethical discipline, higher concentration, and higher discriminating awareness itself. 

The training in higher discriminating awareness is divided into how to get ourselves out of the disturbing emotions – in other words, how to gain liberation – and then how to set out toward enlightenment. The discriminating awareness, or the understanding of voidness, that we need for both is the same.

How to set out toward enlightenment is speaking about the true pathway minds – in other words, the level of mind and the understanding of the four noble truths that we need to have non-conceptually in order to reach liberation or enlightenment, but here enlightenment. This is what is called a “seeing path of mind,” which is when we first gain non-conceptual cognition of the four noble truths. That’s (1) true suffering, (2) their true origins, or cause, (3) the true stopping of them, (4) the true pathway minds and understandings that will lead to that, and the voidness of all of these. The accustoming pathway of mind (usually called the “path of meditation”) is when we accustom ourselves. We accustom ourselves to that non-conceptual understanding in order to cut through all the obscurations, or blocks, that are preventing our liberation and enlightenment.

What we are specifically meditating on as the antidote to our samsaric experience are the twelve links of dependent arising. That is our topic. And the twelve links of dependent arising refer to the mechanism by which we perpetuate our samsaric suffering and existence. They describe how those true sufferings and true causes go on and on and on. And the antidote for that is to stop this causal chain of twelve links. We can have a true stopping of each of those links by starting with the last link. To stop that, we have to stop the link before that. To stop that, we have to stop the link before that, and so on. Eventually, we get to having to stop the first link, which is our unawareness, in this context, of how persons exist, how we and others exist. We do that through a true pathway of mind and understanding the voidness of the impossible person that we imagine that we exist as.

So, in gaining this understanding, this non-conceptual understanding, of these twelve links, both the causal sequence and reversal sequence, we gain a non-conceptual understanding of the four noble truths, which is what the seeing pathway mind and the accustoming pathway mind focus on, to speak in the most general sense of what covers both the Hinayana and Mahayana path – namely, the path to liberation and the path to enlightenment.

The verses that explain this, to repeat here again are 109 through 111:

[109] From unawareness, karmic impulses come forth; from them, consciousness; from that, name and form; from them, the cognitive stimulators are caused; and from them, contacting awareness, the Able Sage has declared. 
[110] From contacting awareness, feelings (of a level of happiness) originate; on the basis of feelings, craving comes to arise; from craving, an obtainer emotion or attitude comes to develop; from that, an impulse for further existence; and from an impulse for further existence, rebirth. 
[111] When rebirth has occurred, then an extremely great mass of sufferings will have arisen, such as sorrow, sickness, aging, deprivation of what we desire, and fear of death; but, by stopping rebirth, all of these (sufferings) will have been stopped. 

Obtainer Emotions and Attitudes (Continued)

Then we get the obtainer disturbing emotions or attitudes. This can be one or more of a whole list of things. 

[1] Obtainer Desire

We spoke about an obtainer desire and that this refers to the desire that we have, or the attachment that we have, to some desirable sensory object. This is at the time of death (remember the context here). 

So, when we are in the process of dying, we might be very happy, in which case, we want not to be parted from that happiness – let’s say that we’re with our loved ones and we’re happy with our life. Or it could be unhappiness, suffering that we experience – with pain, for instance. Let’s say we are experiencing a great deal of pain with cancer or some horrible wound that we received in an accident or a battle or something. We would have that craving to be parted from that, which could be a wish to die, actually. Usually, it is not a wish to die, though it can be. But we really want to be free of this, so there’s a strong craving for that. Or we could be unconscious, and there is a craving just to stay in that state. Obviously, that is not a very conscious craving, but one would want to just stay like that.

Now, the obtainer desire, this disturbing emotion, could be a desire for the sight of a loved one or the sight of some religious painting of a religious figure – a Buddha or Jesus or whomever. It could be the craving for a physical sensation, like holding somebody’s hand, a loved one. Often, when people die, they grab onto someone – “Don’t let go of me,” this type of thing – as if they were falling into some sort of black hole or a pit. So, this is the obtainer desire that we would experience.

[2] Obtainer Deluded Outlook (Three Divisions)

And then the second type of obtainer refers to a deluded outlook. There are several deluded outlooks that we might have here. The first one is: 

  • A distorted outlook 

A distorted outlook is primarily a denial of cause and effect. Now, denial of cause and effect is in the context of believing in future rebirth. We believe in future rebirth, but we deny that we’ll experience the results of any of our actions. It is like we think – to use the analogy of a computer – that our hard disc, as it were (the Speicher, in German), will be completely wiped clean when we die and that we will go into a next life with an empty disc drive. And then the formatting, the programs, the operating system and everything like that that will be loaded onto it in a future life will have no relation whatsoever to what have we done in this life. This could be quite disturbing because we don’t know what will be loaded onto it. It could be according to God’s will, or it could be according to chance, in which case, there’d be nothing that we could do to influence this.  

Or the distorted outlook could be a denial of rebirth. We think that this lifetime is the only one that a seemingly solid “me” is ever going to have, so we hang onto this life even more strongly. Another variation could be that we don’t believe there is any safe direction that we can take that can indicate what to do at the time of death or what can help us. So, we die with the strong feeling of being lost and helpless. We could have antagonism toward anybody who disagrees with our view. So, this denial of anything that can help us at the time of our deaths can be to die in a very bitter and miserable state of mind: “It was all useless; it was all pointless. And now there is nothing.” This is a distorted outlook. 

It is very important when studying all of this to relate it to actual things that could happen because this is what we want to avoid at the time of death. It would be good to avoid this all the time because this is what activates the karmic tendencies, like the karmic tendencies to feel unhappy. So, obviously, if we have these things, we are going to feel very unhappy. “May I not…” you know, craving not to be parted from a happy feeling. Well, a happy feeling is impermanent; even when we are alive, it is going to end. So, we are going to be miserable about that. “Relieve me from this pain that I have” – well, the pain may go on for quite a while. Just wishing to be parted from it is not going to help; it’s just going to make us even unhappier with the pain. And feeling uncertain about what is going to happen next – having no idea, wondering if it’s just by chance, thinking that we have no control over anything in our lives, no way to influence anything – that also can make us very unhappy. So, it is important to relate these things to real life situations.

Any questions about that?

The second obtainer deluded outlook here is what is called: 

  • An extreme outlook 

One variety of this is the disturbing attitude that our bodies and minds with their present, seemingly concrete, permanent identities are going to last forever and that death will never happen. So, this is a grand denial of death, which is a very disturbing and upsetting state of mind because what happens is that we deny, deny, deny, and then, when the actual moment comes, we panic because we are totally unprepared for it and die in a very nasty state of mind. 

Another extreme outlook can be that we will have no continuity after we die. We think that nothing happens after death, that there is no further experiencing of anything. From a psychological point of view, this also can be a disturbing state of mind because, usually, underlying it, is a frightening feeling that there is going to a big nothing. That big nothing is actually quite frightening for most of the people who believe that there is a big nothing after death.

OK. So that is the extreme outlook.

The third obtainer deluded outlook is: 

  • Holding a deluded outlook as supreme 

This is an attitude that involves how we regard things. According to one explanation, this distorted outlook is to regard our aggregates or our bodies as totally pure, clean, and a source of true happiness. This is based on an incorrect consideration of what is supreme. That is why we want to continue having our bodies. We think that they are so wonderful, so totally pure and great and that they are source of true happiness: “I can experience the happiness of eating food and having sex and listening to nice music” and so on. 

But it could take the opposite form, which would be to regard our aggregates as dirty and horrible and to consider that outlook as absolutely correct. “If I could just get separated from my body, which is horribly old and ugly and filled with pain and so on, it would be great. This is the supreme thing that I could do.” Often people who commit suicide have that type of attitude.

So, these three are put together here as an obtainer deluded outlook. 

[3] Holding Deluded Morality or Conduct as Supreme

The next one is the disturbing attitude of holding a deluded morality or conduct as supreme. Deluded morality and deluded conduct – these are two different words in Sanskrit and Tibetan.

Deluded morality is, for example, giving up some trivial behavior that is meaningless to give up, particularly under the circumstance of dying. An example would be to give up our favorite foods – because they “are not good for us” – when we are in the final stages of dying from terminal cancer. It doesn’t matter whether or not we eat a big portion of ice cream every day when we are in the final stages of dying.

My brother in-law was like that. He was dying of brain cancer. He loved ice cream Sundays. So, before he went into the hospital for the final… actually, he died only after a day or so in the hospital. But in those final days, he didn’t deny himself anything in terms of the food that he liked to eat. So, it would be deluded morality to think, “If I go on a diet and don’t eat these things…” then what? I’m dying. Is this going to make any difference? Absolutely not. I’ll fit better, or I’ll look better in the coffin? This is absurd. 

An example of deluded conduct would be to dress, act or speak in some trivial manner that is meaningless to adopt in the face of imminent death – for instance, putting on our army uniforms so that we die in full army dress or holding onto a good luck charm or something like that as we were dying, thinking that acting like this will somehow help us in dying, that this is the best thing that we could do as we die. This, obviously, is also a bit silly.

There are a lot of people like that, especially in the army. “I want to die with my boots on. I want to die with my sword and my belt” – this sort of silly thing. OK. That is deluded conduct. Good luck charms, though, might be more relevant to a lot of people. You want to have your red string or want to be holding your rosary… these sorts of things.

[4] Asserting Our Identities – The Deluded Outlook Toward a Transitory Network

Then the fourth obtainer is asserting our identities, which refers to the deluded outlook toward a transitory network. This refers, basically, to regarding our aggregates as a solid “me,” and “me” as the possessor, controller, or inhabitant of this body and mind, which are solidly mine

So, when we are dying, this could, for instance, be panicking with the thought, “What’s happening to me?” – this solid “me” – and “What’s happening to my body? My body is not functioning anymore.” So, this is an obtainer attitude. This is what will obtain the next rebirth, in a sense. It’s like a grabbing out, but that’s not really the connotation here. It refers to what will obtain the next rebirth. 

How is it usually translated? “Grasping,” isn’t it? “Grasping” doesn’t really convey the meaning here.

Participant: Ergreifen, in German.  

Dr. Berzin: Ergreifen. Craving, grasping, and becoming – that is the usual way of translating this.

Meditating on Death to Cultivate the Positive States of Mind in Which We Would Want to Die

There are a lot of meditations that we can do on death – for instance, meditating on how death will come for sure, that nobody can tell when it is going to happen, and also that nothing will be of help at the time of death except the positive force that we have built up, the positive habits that we have built up, during our lifetimes. It is quite important that we have built up positive outlooks, positive attitudes, positive emotions, and so on as habits during our lifetimes so that at the time of death, rather than having these types of disturbing emotions – craving and one of these obtainer emotions or attitudes – we have something much more positive happening. 

His Holiness the Dalai Lama has talked about how there are all these complicated visualizations that we can do at the time of death, ones that we practice with and rehearse in the highest class of tantric practice. There is an eight-step process of the subtle consciousness withdrawing from the elements of the body, and various types of perception occur where things start to become like a mirage. Things lose their solidity in our perception of them as the subtle energy, the subtle winds, and subtle consciousness withdraw. So, we go through these visualizations and then arise as a deity and all these sorts of things. Very, very complicated. 

His Holiness has said that, of course, this has a benefit of not freaking out while we are dying – because we have an idea of what is going to happen; it’s not a big unknown – and that we can observe something similar (if we are really able to do it – it’s not so easy) in the process of falling asleep because the consciousness likewise withdraws from at least the sensory objects. But at the time of death, His Holiness says, this is so difficult to do – the visualizations of these stages – that we are likely to get very frustrated and confused and then die in a very frustrated, angry state of mind: “Oh, I’m not doing it perfectly,” and, “Oh, I didn’t get the fourth arm on the left looking like this,” or “What comes next?” and so on. 

So, it is more beneficial, His Holiness said, to die in a state of mind of refuge and bodhichitta and thinking of the spiritual teachers. In other words, “May I continue going in this direction of Buddha, Dharma, and Sangha. May I be able to have all the circumstances – precious human rebirth, meeting with the great spiritual teachers, being able to study with them – and to continue on so that I can reach enlightenment and benefit everybody as much as is possible to reach liberation and enlightenment.” This is a state of mind to die in. Much easier to generate. We are not going to be so confused. And if we’ve familiarized ourselves in tantra practice with what’s going to happen, then we won’t be freaked out by it, which is beneficial. We won’t be afraid because we know what will happen.

Participant: What happens if somebody dies in a coma?

Dr. Berzin: If somebody dies in a coma, the stages of the subtle consciousness withdrawing occur anyway. And even if you die instantly, like being hit by a truck or something, these stages happen in very, very quick succession. You may not have very much, if any, awareness through that. If you can’t generate a certain state of mind when you die because you are in a coma or are hit by a truck… well, that’s why it is important to have beneficial states of mind all the time if you can. 

Not Wanting Our Last Thought to Be “Oh, S**t!”

Pardon my language, but we don’t want to die in the state of mind of saying, “Oh, shit!” This often happens. I noticed it in myself. I was quite shocked by it. In Dharamsala once during the monsoon, I slipped and fell because the ground was very slime-y and slippery, and I landed on the edge of a concrete step and cracked some ribs. It was very painful. And for what seemed like a very long period of time, I couldn’t catch my breath. And what was the thought that came into my mind? “Oh, shit!” Scheiße, in German.

Now, is that the last thought we want to have? You know, we are driving our car, and then we see this large truck heading for us and about to hit us, and we say, “Oh, shit!” And then that’s it. Then we’re dead. That indicates what type of habit we have built up. And that’s not a very good state of mind to die in, is it? This is why we want to try to build up something more positive as a strong habit. 

It’s interesting, the Tibetans have an expression that they would use in similar situations. They don’t say, “Oh, shit.” They say “dkon-mchog gsum,” which is “Three Jewels of Refuge.” It’s a sort of like saying “Jesus Christ,” which is better than saying “oh, shit.” [Laughter] 

So, even if we don’t have a great meaning associated with it – “mother of God” or whatever it is – try to built up some more beneficial habits so that when we are near a death experience or death experience comes, we think of bodhichitta, of our teachers, of precious human rebirth, and so on. OK?

Participant: Perhaps it is better to say, “Oh, Christ” than “Oh, shit.”

Dr. Berzin: Yes, absolutely. Absolutely, “Oh, Christ” is better.

Participant: I used to say, “Oh, God.’

Dr. Berzin: “My God.” There are a lot of expletives that one could say besides “Oh, shit,” but it’s funny how accustomed we’ve become to that.

That’s an indication of the influence of misleading friends. Somebody had to teach us that, didn’t they? So, where did we learn that? It’s interesting to think about. And certainly, many people around us say that, so it is reinforced. 

Participant: Does it makes any difference? If I say, “Oh, shit,” or I said, “God,” does it make any difference to my state of mind that’s full of fear and defensiveness and then “me, me, me”?

Dr. Berzin: No, what you say doesn’t make any difference in terms of the fear and the defensive of “Oh, me, me, me.”  

Participant: So, we don’t have to change what we say.

Dr. Berzin: Yes. But it adds to it. It just makes it worse. To say, “Oh, God,” and still die in a state of fear and “me, me, me,” and all of that is not going to help either. However, what I am saying is that saying dkon-mchog gsum (the Three Jewels) or “Oh, Christ” or whatever is better than saying “oh, shit.” However, that is not the optimal state of mind to die in. Optimal state of mind is not to say anything like that but to generate bodhichitta, to think of the gurus: “May I not be separated; may I always be able to study and continue on the path to enlightenment.” That is the beneficial thing you want to generate. Whether you say something or not is irrelevant. So, we are just talking about degrees of what would be better or worse… more or less helpful. Put it that way. 

I mean in a sense you are right. It’s just the sound of a word. When we say, “Oh, shit,” we don’t actually visualize shit and think of what it means. Similarly, when you say, “Jesus Christ” or  “Oh, my God,” you don’t think of Jesus Christ, and you don’t think of my God. 

Participant: It is ironic, but the state of mind… 

Dr. Berzin: Right. So, the state of mind is similar. It’s just a sound. We are not thinking of the meaning of it. So, one could argue that there is not much difference in terms of there just being a sound and not associating a meaning with it. One could argue that. But I still think there is a difference – a slight difference, perhaps, but  a difference. 

Participant: I find it really difficult. It is already difficult if you have time to think about it and set up the mentality – like, if you’re in a plane that is falling down and you have some time. Actually, that’s a very good situation to die in. But the truck? It’s really difficult.

Participant: I prefer the truck, actually.

Participant: Why? On a plane, you have time because of the altitude.

Participant: Do you think that you calm down when the plane’s crashing down? I don’t know.

Dr. Berzin: I don’t know. It’s very interesting how the mind works. I had very bad bronchitis when I was in America a couple of years ago. One night I started coughing, and my throat contracted, and I couldn’t breathe. So, it was like a choking type of thing. That can happen with severe bronchitis. So, you’re like that, and you’re wondering, “Am I ever going to be able to catch my breath, to take a breath in?” It’s a little bit like drowning. And it took what seemed like a very long time before I could somehow relax my body enough. For sure… I mean, I noticed myself – I wasn’t thinking “oh, shit,” but I certainly wasn’t thinking, “Now I am going to die. I accept that, and now I pray for a better rebirth and bodhichitta.” All my efforts were concentrated on trying to breathe again.

So, it’s very interesting. In the process of dying, do you eventually surrender to death or do you keep on fighting it? I don’t know. Do you reach a point where you surrender? 

Participant: It’s difficult. You feel afraid when you can’t breathe and…

Dr. Berzin: Well, yes. When you can’t breathe, you feel afraid. And I certainly did experience fear.

What did you say? Speak louder.

Participant: There’s no reason why dying in the plane isn’t the best. In the plane, you cannot do anything anyway, so you could potentially relax. If you’re choking, you feel like you can do something, so, then, you have to do something 

Dr. Berzin: Right. If you are choking and you can’t get your breath, you feel as though there is something you could do. But that is different from being in the final stages of dying of cancer where there is no hope that you are going to revive. Maybe you’ll be able to hang on for another couple of hours or days of misery. Or when you’re in the plane that is crashing and you have a few moments, then, since there is nothing that you can do, you could surrender. 

Participant: The only time I felt that the plane was really crashing, I couldn’t bring myself to… although it crossed my mind to try to relax and to think of the Three Jewels and so on, it was very hard. It was really, really, really very hard

Dr. Berzin: So, what did you experience? Fear? 

Participant: Me, me, me.

Dr. Berzin: Me, me, me. 

It’s not a nice experience. But when you have an experiences in which you feel you are going to die or almost going to die, what is going on in our minds and our emotions? 

You see, this is why… As I said, there are many forms of death meditation, but one form of death meditation is to imagine, “Now I am dying.” You don’t have to do it in the full tantric way with all the visualizations and imagining the steps that happen in the actual process of dying. You just imagine that you are on your deathbed and what you want to have around you. Do you want to have all your relatives and friends crying and carrying on, making a big scene? Or would you rather have peace and quiet? A lot of people don’t want to die alone. Well, do you want to die with a lot of people around you? That also could not be very helpful for being able to settle your mind. You want to have loud techno music that you like it so much going on in the background? No, not quite. Not quite.

Participant: You imagine that you are dying, then after you feel that. 

Dr. Berzin: You feel what? 

Participant: You feel that you are dying

Dr. Berzin: No. The point of imagining that we are dying is to generate the type of mind that we would like to have when we are dying. That’s the whole point. So, it is not just “I’m dying, I’m dying, I’m dying.” Not like that. It’s the whole thing of “Death will come for sure; I can never tell when. And the only thing that is going to be helpful is my state of mind and the positive habits and karmic force that I have built up.” You think in terms of that. 

First, you consider, “Well, am I ready? If I were to die now, would I feel that my life was in order – that I have said and done what I could in the time that I have had? How have I prepared for the future in terms of myself, my future lives, and in terms of what I leave behind?” Are we going to leave behind a mess that other people are going to have to deal with – a million euros of debt that our wife or husband or children are going to have to deal with? What are we leaving behind? To practice the state of mind that we would like to have is helpful. 

Now, during the day, if we are aware that death could come at any time, etc., then, instead of imagining all day that we are dying… that’s not the point. The point is to then motivate ourselves to take advantage of the time that we have within the context of – to go back to my favorite Zen koan – “Death can come at any time: relax.” In other words, if we are uptight about death, it is just going to make it worse. So, relax and do what needs to be done. And when you need to take a break, take a break. But make your time worthwhile. This is important. This is important.

So, we have this death meditation. 

Verse 112: Dependent Arising

Then Nagarjuna sums this up:

[112] This dependent arising, the (most) cherished (gem) in the treasure of the Triumphant One’s proclamations, is profound; whoever sees it correctly sees the Buddha, the supreme Knower of Reality.

So, what he is saying here is that dependent arising, referring to dependent arising in terms of the twelve links, is the most treasured gem of the Buddha’s teachings. So, if we want to become a Buddha, a supreme Knower of Reality, that is what we need to understand.

Now, from the Hinayana point of view, there is not much difference between what we need to understand to become an arhat or a Buddha. They don’t speak about the voidness of all phenomena. Whether we become a liberated being (an arhat) or we become a Buddha is just a matter of how much positive force we have built up. They don’t put the emphasis on bodhichitta. That’s why the section we’re up to in the outline is how to set out toward enlightenment – so, the path to enlightenment – and here the path to enlightenment is also the path to liberation. That is why it says that whoever understood the twelve links of dependent arising one correctly sees the Buddha, the supreme Knower of Reality – so, you gain enlightenment.

Now, one could also understand dependent arising here to have a deeper meaning, which is dependent arising in terms of mental labeling – that everything, given the voidness of phenomena, exists dependently on what the words and concepts for them refer to. That’s what establishes the existence of something. And that is the big discussion of voidness. That is not so necessary to go into here, but there are other levels that we could understand this on.

That concludes this section. It took many classes. Anyway, this topic of the twelve links is really quite important. It can be elaborated far more than I have elaborated it here. And obviously, as Nagarjuna says, this is the main thing to understand.

Two Levels of Understanding Dependent Arising: as Conventional Truth (Cause and Effect) and as Deepest Truth (Voidness)

We want to understand dependent arising, first, on this level and then on the level of voidness, the Prasangika presentation of voidness. This level of dependent arising deals with our understanding of conventional truth – what we experience in terms of our samsaric experience. And dependent arising in terms of mental labeling deals with the understanding of the deepest truth – voidness. So, we have two presentations of dependent arising: dependent arising in terms of cause and effect (here, in the context of the twelve links – so, understanding the conventional truth of things; and dependent arising in terms of mental labeling – so, understanding the deepest truth of things.

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